Former American first lady, Michelle Obama has taken to her social media space to celebrate her husband, Barack Obama.
The 58 years old decided to share some relationship tips for her fans haven been married to former US President, Barack Obama since 30 years.
Michelle happens to be first lady of the United States from 2009 to 2017. She was the first African-American woman to serve in the position.
Michelle shared the secret to a happy and long marriage. In the images, she posted the collage with a long note calling Barack her home.
Her caption reads: "As an adult, I’ve lived in a number of places, but as far as I’m concerned, I’ve only ever had one real home. My home is my family. My home is Barack.
"But here’s the thing—our marriage has never been perfectly 50-50. One of us is always needing more or giving more. We have to be willing to listen to each other, honestly and without defensiveness. Only then, can we evolve together."
Michelle has been married to Barack Obama since 1997 and they already have two Children: Malia Ann Obama, Sasha Obama.
She added: "Over the years, a lot of young people have asked me about marriage. And my response usually goes something like this: You have to prepare yourself for long stretches of discord and discomfort. You have to learn how to make real compromises in the way you’ve lived as an individual. Glamorizing a relationship while you’re dating will lead you straight to difficulty once you’re married. You can’t paper over problems when you’re living with someone day in and day out.
"So you’ve got to ask yourself: What are you trying to get out of this relationship? Have you truly thought it through? Do you want a wedding or do you want a lifelong partnership? Those are two very different things. Together, you are answering the question: Who are we and who do we want to be?
"Now I want to hear from you. What advice would you share about marriage or relationships? #TheLightWeCarry"
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